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Dr. Gary Davis,
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Whom does Catholic Charities serve?
Do I have to be Catholic to come to Catholic Charities?
How much is it going to cost to receive pregnancy services through Catholic Charities?
What kinds of adoptions are facilitated by Catholic Charities?
What is Catholic Charities' position on ongoing communication in adoption?
Does the baby’s father have to be involved?
When do I make the adoption decision?
What help is available for medical expenses?
Is there assurance that my child will be raised in a good home?
What if my parents or the baby’s father say they want to keep my baby?
Do I have to participate in all of the services offered at Catholic Charities to make a plan of adoption for my baby?
When I meet with an adoption specialist at Catholic Charities, what will we talk about?
Why choose Catholic Charities?


Whom does Catholic Charities serve?
The agency provides services to birthparents throughout the state of Indiana.

Do I have to be Catholic to come to Catholic Charities?
No. Services are available to everyone.

How much does it cost to receive pregnancy services through Catholic Charities?
There is no cost for pregnancy services. Professional counseling and support are available to you and your extended family before your baby is born, whether you choose parenting or adoption. If an adoption occurs, ongoing counseling is available at no cost.

What kinds of adoptions are facilitated by Catholic Charities?
Catholic Charities will assist you in planning the adoption experience you wish to have. Many adoptions have some form of ongoing communication, but not all do. If a birthparent does not want to, or feel able to, select or meet the adoptive family, the birthparent does not have to do so. Catholic Charities will assist as needed.

What is Catholic Charities' position on ongoing communication in adoption?
Under Indiana law IC.31-19-16-9, post-adoption contact privileges are permissible without court approval in an adoption of a child who is less than 2 years of age upon the agreement of the adoptive parents and a birthparent. We at Catholic Charities believe that ongoing communication can benefit both the birthparent and the adoptive family by giving them more control over the adoption process. For the birthparent, it helps relieve a sense of blind trust, guilt, uncertainty, worry, and fear about the child’s future.

Does the baby’s father have to be involved?
Under Indiana law, a man has the right to know he has been named as the father of a child for whom adoption is being considered. An adoption cannot proceed until the birthfather’s parental rights have been terminated. There are a number of ways those rights can be terminated; the adoption specialist can explain them to you. A birthfather may also choose to voluntarily relinquish his parental rights.

When do I make the adoption decision?
Your adoption decision is made after the baby is born. In Indiana, when you sign the permanent papers, you are giving up your legal rights to the child.

What help is available for medical expenses?
Whether you choose to adopt or parent, we encourage you to get good prenatal care as soon as you learn you are pregnant. If you need assistance, please ask. We’re ready to connect you to available community resources. If you’re planning an adoption, help may also come from the adoptive parents.

Is there assurance that my child will be raised in a good home?
One of the most important services Catholic Charities provides is thorough assessment and preparation of families approved for adoption. If you choose to select and/or meet the prospective adoptive family, you may also make your own assessment.

What if my parents or the baby’s father say they want to keep my baby?
Your parents cannot keep your baby unless you agree. If the baby’s father wants to parent and you agree, he can file for paternity and get custody of the baby after the child is born. If you do not want the baby’s father to parent, but he obtains an attorney and files for paternity, you may need to retain an attorney. This can be explored with Catholic Charities.

Do I have to participate in all of the services offered at Catholic Charities to make a plan of adoption for my baby?
Although we recommend that you utilize our full program, it’s possible to make a plan of adoption without utilizing all of the available services.

When I meet with an adoption specialist at Catholic Charities, what will we talk about?
The primary focus is on decision-making. The choices of parenting or making an adoption plan are explored. You’re in charge of advising the adoption specialist of your needs.

Why choose Catholic Charities?
There are many reasons:

Agency-assisted adoptions have been a safe and secure means of adopting children for years.
We have been facilitating adoption since 1922.
We are licensed by the State of Indiana as a Child Placing Agency.
We are accredited by the Council on Accreditation Services for Families and Children, Inc.
Our staff is professional and experienced in issues and services related to pregnancy and adoption.
We will help you look at all options.
We will support your decision no matter what you decide.
Families approved by Catholic Charities have already attended adoption education training and have an approved home study.

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